One of the signs of human arrogance is that we think our questions are relevant. That our questions will get answers that are usable, useful, and truthful.
Nothing is further from the truth.
When you ask your question you are already too deep in “knowing”… much like a detective who has already narrowed his search and investigation to one suspect: if the detective is off, the questions are off. And even if they get a yes answer every step of the way, that won’t make the suspect guilty… They asked the wrong question… and there are not enough yes answers to make it the right question.